Who Is The Real Person In Your Mirror?
Imagine if you were Amelia. Amelia is an 11-year-old child who has been wetting her bed every single night since she was five. Imagine what your life would be like waking up soaking wet in the middle of the night. You couldn't lead a normal little girl's life in terms of having sleepovers with friends, going camping or going on vacation with friends. In addition, you are having difficulty in school with focus and with your grades.
Amelia had to take a ferry boat to The CLI Coaching Room. Tiny little Amelia arrived 3 hours later and was all but swallowed up by the size of the coaching chair. I asked Amelia what she wanted to work on this session. Her main challenge was "My mother loves my brother more than me." Her #1 goal was "I really want to live with my Dad." Her parents had separated many years before.
Not once did she mention her bedwetting nor was she aware that I knew about it.
We coached for approximately 90 minutes and at the end of the session, Amelia streamed in from her Superconscious an image of her being married to a Prince. As that Princess, she arranged to have many horses on the palace grounds that were therapeutic horses. Emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically challenged children were invited to come and ride the horses, and were often healed by the love emanating from the horses. Because this image came from her Godself or Superconscious, Amelia decoded these perfect solutions to her challenge and goal:
1. Since she didn't feel great love from her Mom, perhaps she could volunteer at a horse farm just down the road from their apartment and receive love from the horses.
2. Maybe her Dad was still suffering inside from the marriage separation and needed to live by himself for a little while longer.
At that moment, Amelia hit what we call another frustra. This meant that while she had released a lot of her emotions around her initial challenge and goal, she immediately hit another wall or frustration. Her peaceful physiology shifted into a limp, disempowered one as she said "I will never be a Princess."
To a CLI Mind-Kinetics® Coach, this despair usually means that something quick has to happen here otherwise the client would not leave feeling peaceful and content which is a mandatory requirement for Mind-Kinetics.
With her permission, I took her tiny little hand in mine and together we walked over
to a full length mirror. I asked, "Amelia, what does a Princess look like on the outside?"
She replied, "Well, she usually has a cute little nose, a clean haircut, little ears,
a slim body, and sometimes they have dimples." I asked, "And when you look at the
young lady in this mirror, what do you see?" Amelia replied in a stuttering quiet voice,
"Well, I, I, I, have a cute little nose don't I? And my hair with the straight bangs is quite
cool. My ears are small and gosh, I never noticed my body before. It is slim and healthy.
My dimples are not very big though. But that's okay." To which I asked, "Does this mean
that maybe you are a Princess on the outside then?" With her face lighting up in a smile,
Amelia replied, "Well, I guess it does! Oh my!"
Continuing on this reflective journey, I asked her, "Amelia, what does a Princess look like on the inside?" She replied, "Well, I guess she is kind, sweet, loving, and generous." I asked, "And when you look at the young lady in this mirror, what do you see?" Getting more and more excited as she spoke, Amelia replied, "Well, I guess I am quite kind and sweet. I know that I can be loving and generous." To which I asked, "Does this mean that maybe you are a Princess on the inside?" With her face scrunched up in happy tears, she responded, "Yes, Betska, I am a Princess on the inside and the outside. I just couldn't see it before."
I only coached Amelia that one time. Checking in a few months later, Amelia's mother shared the happy news. Immediately following the session, Amelia stopped bedwetting forever. And her dream of living with her Dad came true.
So how did these miracles happen?
The scientifically engineered coaching methodologies identified the Root Cause of her bedwetting (not feeling loved) even though that was not what she was working on at an intellectual level. The process created the space for Amelia to stream in genius solutions to her challenge of not receiving enough love from her Mom and cleared the emotional roadblocks in the way of her living with her Dad. By letting go of the emotional attachment to her need to live with her Dad, she was able to manifest it on a physical level. In other words, she achieved such amazing results because she tapped into the highest part of her-her Godself-for the Root Cause and the solutions. Upon finding the Root Cause, the Client permanently shifts their behaviour because once the learning is achieved, they no longer have a reason to hold on to those behaviours.
Bravo Amelia!
Dear Reader, who do you see when you look in your mirror?
